Monday, 26 October 2015

I had a threesome and got pregnant but both men want me to get a termination

 Young Woman with Pregnancy Test
This is a story of a devastated woman who got pregnant after having a threesome, she now seeks for advice on what to do since the two men said she should terminate the pregnancy.
Read below and give your own piece of advice in the comment section.
  
A few weeks ago, my fiance and I decided to experiment a little bit in the bedroom. We’re both very open-minded and not shy when it comes to sex. We ended up having a threesome with a close friend of his and now I’m pregnant. I don’t know if the child belongs to my fiance or his friend. I’m only six weeks at this moment.
I’ve wanted a child for many years and had been growing disheartened as, while we weren’t counting down the days and minutes until ovulation, we hadn’t been using contraception for well over a year and nothing had happened.
Having always suffered from polycystic ovary syndrome, I knew my chances of conceiving naturally weren’t good. Only a couple of months ago our doctor said he’d have to refer us to a specialist given that we’d been trying to conceive for more than a year.
My fiance’s friend knows I’m pregnant. He also has a partner and I’m not sure if she knows but he has said that he wants me to have an abortion. My fiance has told me to have a termination, too.
I had an abortion when I was 20 and it always kept me wondering, “what if that was my only chance?” I’m now nearly 34 so this may actually be my final chance. I love my fiance and want things to work out but everyone seems to keep forgetting I didn’t have the threesome on my own and this is my baby.
Regardless of whether the child is biologically linked to my fiance, I don’t see any reason why he can’t love him or her. Gay parents, adoptive parents and parents who’ve used egg or sperm donors don’t love their kids any less – why should he?
Please help. Should I have a termination and hope one day I’ll have a child? Should I keep the baby and hope it belongs to my fiance? Or should I run away and raise the child on my own?

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